Conflict between labmates - how should i solve it? (Nov/06/2007 )

Fix the poor girl up with Bungalow Boy, and if she's good looking, you can fix her up with me .

Fix the poor girl up with Bungalow Boy, and if she's good looking, you can fix her up with me .

QUOTE (dave2 @ Nov 14 2007, 05:04 AM)

Fix the poor girl up with Bungalow Boy, and if she's good looking, you can fix her up with me .

Ooooops! I am out of here. How many days do I have to change my screen name?

QUOTE (Bungalow Boy @ Nov 13 2007, 05:02 PM)

QUOTE (dave2 @ Nov 14 2007, 05:04 AM)

Fix the poor girl up with Bungalow Boy, and if she's good looking, you can fix her up with me .

Ooooops! I am out of here. How many days do I have to change my screen name?

ya she is really good looking...but Bungalow Boy is the right person because he is really kind harted and understood her very well................

Hope she is - she will realise Sijo still cares.

Sijo, dont see it as her fault. She is nice that she looks at good side of U so much that she has reasons to believe U r the right man: though we all know U r not

Sijo will be trying his luck in Christmas this year. All of us are scientists there; let's think of possible obstacles that might come and how he should overcome them and bring up a list if dos and don'ts for Sijo.

Do s

1. Be as casual as U can. She wants a friend in you rather than a 'care taker'. If U carry that extra-caring attitude, it will just be so unnatural and ugly.
2. When U r asking her out, please tell her about www.freerice.com - it will make her happy. Try and see.


Don'ts

1. Do not smoke. Neither cigarette nor your head with anger.
2. Do not hold hands, hug, kiss, or show any affection to your wife in front of her that day - just that day. U have all your remaining life for that.
3. Do not hold hands, hug, kiss, or show any affection to her in front of your wife - there will be just one day remaining in your life.

Better be a psychiatrist than a scientist. I will try my level best to follow your instructions for a smooth life....

Hope she is - she will realise Sijo still cares.

Sijo, dont see it as her fault. She is nice that she looks at good side of U so much that she has reasons to believe U r the right man: though we all know U r not

Sijo will be trying his luck in Christmas this year. All of us are scientists there; let's think of possible obstacles that might come and how he should overcome them and bring up a list if dos and don'ts for Sijo.

Do s

1. Be as casual as U can. She wants a friend in you rather than a 'care taker'. If U carry that extra-caring attitude, it will just be so unnatural and ugly.
2. When U r asking her out, please tell her about www.freerice.com - it will make her happy. Try and see.


Don'ts

1. Do not smoke. Neither cigarette nor your head with anger.
2. Do not hold hands, hug, kiss, or show any affection to your wife in front of her that day - just that day. U have all your remaining life for that.
3. Do not hold hands, hug, kiss, or show any affection to her in front of your wife - there will be just one day remaining in your life.

all the best...

I think you all do things in a right order. You first tried to talk to him and then by his suggestion let your PI to solve the problem. So I think he should be the one who try to melt the ice between you and him. From now on it is his problem. Do not care the rest.